Feeling of insecurity

So today I would like to write a little bit about trust and insecurity. Trust is the first death that occurs in any conflict. Doesn't matter whom the conflict is with. It can be with your partner, your colleagues and your co-workers and also Yourself. 

The feeling of security is very a fundamental requirement for your mental stability. This feeling can not always be transmitted to others around you, because it can also be blocked by their own insecurities, or your words and actions are not indicative enough about your intentions. But You feeling secure from within can only lie in your own hands. Feeling of insecurity in yourself can arise from many reasons. Of course since this isn't a Self Help blog and I am not a Psychologist or a Leader in any sorts, I as the author of this blog can only jot down my own ideas. My best idea about internal security is being truthful to yourself. The question you need to ask yourself, is -"have you been Loyal to yourself? "

Dr. Jordan Peterson, who has proven to be of great influence to many men, has given a line of thought that anyone who wants to bring a positive change in their own life must really meditate over (direct all micropersonalities towards one purpose) - What is something that you are fundamentally doing wrong?

For a person who is insecure from within, I have a feeling, that the answer will be -  "being disloyal to yourself". Of course there might be other reasons for insecurity. For example, of course its natural to feel insecure of situations that you have never faced (being in a group of unknown people, a different country, a new job, etc.) But a sense of insecurity from within, with yourself, in daily activities is not an external factor. It can only be solved internally, by being Loyal to yourself. 

You see now? When you have a conflict (even with yourself), trust (even in yourself) is the first casualty.