NotASelfHelpBlog

 So at brink of turning 30, like me, there are many questions that come to my mind. Some get answered, some not!  A very general statement isn't it? So with my blog, I just want to take you on a journey of a confused mind that is seeking growth and healing in life. I guess this is the revelation that every adult talks about at end of 20s. Mind you, I am not a professional and this is no a Self Help Blog. So, here we go I want to just write briefly about marriage and relationships and my thought about it. Ofcourse, this is from my own experiences where I have seen my own self and my loved ones suffer. My idea of relationships was very immature, maybe it still is. Now the question arises what can be defined as immature? Well my best idea here is that immature means not knowing what you want, need and deserve. A good thinker will be able to break these lets say "high-level" ideas into small bite sized thoughts which are measurable in every way. But my idea of relationships a...

Getting back to writing a little bit to get my head thinking again, and to streamline my thoughts after some time is a challenge. To be very honest this break wasn't an intended break, its just my adhd brain being saturated after a while and searching for something new always.  It might seem all over the place to read this article because lets face it, I am not a professional and this isn't a self help blog!  My today’s thought actually isn’t derived from anyone its just an epiphany (maybe short lasting) that just happened while thinking about finances, standing in a bank.  So, I ask myself about education and why study? What to study? And how does it relate to work?  What my mind tells me is as follows- No matter how much we develop as a society, our society as it stands is because countless people before us have worked to make it the way it is. And it may be possible that you wont be disrespected as a human, but you sure wont be respected if you aren’t working (whe...