NotASelfHelpBlog

Life is so good when - - you aren’t shouldering responsibility - aren’t accountable for your mistakes - aren‘t required to deliver results - are free to make as many mistakes as you want without major repercussions on you - have no one to question you at all - when someone else come‘s to cleanup after a mess you make - when you dont have to care about anything and others care for everything for you yes life is beautiful then… but would you want it for yourself? Would you really seek it? I am not a psychologist and this isnt a Self help blog… but I can say yes I am jealous of the people who really want this life. Would you tolerate a 40 year old… perhaps a parent of 1-2 kids who has this attitude to life? No right? Because thats what you expect only of children. You expect adults to bear some responsibility. And I can tell you, i dont want to go back to being 2 again. It was a time good/bad… i dont know… but I am happy where I am right now just some yapping out. Cheers

Hello hello! After a long long time again I am here to pen my thoughts. Not as a psychologist or any kind of an expert… but a normal thinker who wants clarity of thought. This definitely isn‘t a self help blog either! So hier goes… I am sitting in a tram, going to work and suddenly I see my reflection in the glass. I start to imagine hey do any other creatures need to see their reflection? Abhishek Upmanyu‘s joke comes to my mind, where he says… a cat looks at other cat‘s hairstyle and „agar iski sahi hai to meri bhi sahi hai“. Mirrors were invented by us and no other creature really uses it. So society, world naturally works on social image… where everyone of us or atleast in our immediate circle have the same values of hierarchy and we get reactions to how we behave, look, wear, how much money we have. Etc. And a favourable reaction that makes us feel comfortable is the so called „validation“. Now what we are really struggling is having conflicting opinions about ourselves based on w...